30 Things That I've Learned By 30
Throughout life, you learn many lessons. You also unlearn thoughts and beliefs that you may have picked up through different experiences. As I approach my 31st birthday, I wanted to share 30 things I’ve learned (and relearned) since turning 30. These lessons have helped me, and I hope they help you, too.
Always choose yourself
Be okay with not being liked by everyone.
Own your mistakes and bad decisions.
You don’t have to chase what (and who) is meant for you.
It’s okay to start over and take a different path. You’re not a failure if you start over
Life is not a race. The only person you’re competing with is you.
There’s only one YOU, and that is enough in itself.
Don’t put your eggs in one basket.
Breathe.
Life is short. Do it now, or don’t do it at all.
11. It’s okay to have a relationship with God and go to therapy at the same time.
12. College isn’t a scam, and don’t listen to those who say it is.
13. Eat what you want. You don’t have to hate food.
14. Love who you are and the heart that God gave you.
15. Have fun!
16. Protect your peace.
17. Surround yourself with people who are where you want to be, or striving to get there, and don’t be intimidated by them! Be confident and open to learn.
18. Communication involves more than just talking
19. Listen and listen well. Not everything needs a response
20. Wanting marriage and children isn’t a bad thing, but doing so with the wrong person is.
21. Your parents are human, and they did they best they could.
22. Forgiveness doesn’t always equate to reconciliation. You can still forgive and move on without that person in your life. Forgiveness is a form of release and preservation of energy. It is for YOU.
23. Heal, so you don’t become like those who hurt you.
24. Travel until you can’t do it anymore.
25. It’s okay to be different.
26. Laugh often and laugh at yourself. Don’t be so serious all the time!
27. It’s okay to be vulnerable and ask for help. You deserve support, too.
28. Celebrate all the things, big and small! You are worth celebrating.
29. You are worth it, PERIOD.
30. Enjoy your life and live.
- Anyssa xoxo
